Here is a link to a Youtube film of the excellent Gordon Smith the “Psychic Barber” talking about his experience of working with Spirit and how he personally connects with Spirit and how the communication, for him, works. If you have not seen Gordon work you have really missed something. Do try, if you can, to go see him it is so very worth while. Bless you Gordon for all you do.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEf7UhXkedQ#t=57